Pregnancy and Abortions.

i have this friend. i'm not going to say her name because its too risky. i'll just call her A shall i? anyway, A has gotten herself pregnant 3 times. 3 freaking times! and, she was 18 or 19 when she had her first pregnancy. she got depressed, rarely ate, became slightly anti-social, and didn't do anything at all. so one day, fwoop! the foetus dropped out of her and what could she do but flush it away? i thought that experience was enough to teach her a lesson already. but no. she got pregnant again. abortion and then this year, pregnancy again and abortion again. sigh..

what would i do if i were in her shoes? what if i got pregnant? i really don't know what i would do. abortion would be the right thing to do. is it? think about this : its the right thing for you. what about your unborn child? abortion is the right thing to do, but how can it be right when it is so wrong for the baby? you're killing it. i think aborting a baby puts you in an equal position with criminals. you deserve to go to jail for aborting your unborn child. they put criminals behind bars when they kill someone, so why should you deserve any less?
but,
saying all this and going through the real deal are two totally different things. who are we to judge those who went through abortion? who are we to say what's right and what's wrong? who are we to say that the pregnant girl had a choice to not kill her baby? maybe she didn't want to and it is probable that her decision will haunt her for the rest of her life. maybe she wanted to keep it but couldn't because she doesn't have the means to take care of her baby. we wouldn't know, would we? of course, whatever i say doesn't apply to the women who doesn't give two fucks about whether she's pregnant or not. abortion, abortion, lah! so what? this is the type of woman i wouldn't bother sticking up for even if she was being tortured right in front of me.

and if you believe in spirits, karma, and fairymagicangelsGod, you could probably make a promise to your unborn baby to come back to you after a certain time. and keep it. or maybe if you believe in ghosts, then believe me when i say that the baby will definitely come back to haunt you at night. my other friend, i shall call her B, is haunted every night by her second unborn child. and it made her decide to keep her third child. you see, the second child comes back every night, asking her why won't B keep her? and sometimes you can see the shadow of the little ghost's face flashing past. its really scary. and the worst part is, it only came back to haunt her after a year. so the little child was already a year old. apparently, in the spirit world, the unborn child will grow like a normal child who will come back to haunt you.

so, what would i do if i were in their shoes? i guess i would never know until i get myself pregnant or something.

this post is merely a post. nothing more. if you think that i am pregnant, then screw you. go get a life.

byebye.